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A tough choiceThis forum post has messages dated from 07/25/10 through 10/24/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Divorce
| A tough choice A fellow was commenting the other day that he knew that he would eventually divorce his wife during several years before he actually acted on it.Thatīs one of the main problems with divorce. There are many factors that inhibit people from taking the step, and they wait for years before doing it. Usually the main factor in the waiting game is the kids. This friend was actually afraid that he wouldnīt see his kids again. Thoughts were like he "wouldnīt be having lunch with them any more" arose in his mind. For these reasons he waited several years knowing that it would end. Afterwards he admitted that he really didnīt experience any of his fears. He is glad he did it. But, all the lost time! |
| "What Is The Good In Living Together? "
No matter how any couple would try to save the marriage, if they do not love each other anymore, it would be hard for them to live together. Yes, the kids would always be the reason why couples find it hard to find their separate ways. But what will happen if they still live together? They will just make it hard for the both of them and for their kids as well. |
| "Being In A Hard Situation "
I have to agree with Nancy. There is no use of keeping the relationship unless you are still in love with each other. Things would just be too hard for the couple and with their kids as well. But still as parents, couples should consider their kids. For in the process they are the ones who would surely get affected. But there are couples out there who splits up and still goes well as friends |
| "Sacrifices Made By Parents"
The mere thought of you eating meals all by yourself and not being there for your kids and listen to their stories from school is something really scary to think about. And with this, we cannot just blame parents if they feel like not giving up on the marriage. Especially when there are kids involved. Who would want to be separated with their anyway? I bet that no one would want that. |
| "Kids Need Both Of Their Parents "
We sure have lots of reasons to still cling on to marriage. And it is not easy to just let go of those reasons and go out of ties of marriage. And it is important that we do look for ways to still save the marriage. Especially when there is kids involved. For you can never tell what will happen after you broke up with your spouse. Kids needs both of their parents. |
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