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Yahoo! Answers: messed up with my gf, now i want her back.?This forum post has messages dated from 03/26/10 through 06/06/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Anger Management
| Yahoo! Answers: messed up with my gf, now i want her back.? my gf of 2 years and i recently broke up because when we argued( over petty stuff), i would say really nasty things to her, call her names. she dealt with it for a while because afterwards i would apologize and tell her i didnt mean it. she finally had enough and left me. we still talk on the phone and even went to dinner. i apologized to her and let her know that i know i hurt her and i realized what ive done. I even took an anger management class online. she says she still loves me but all the things i said to her still plays in her head and that she wishes it wasnt like this but she cant look pass every thing that ive said to her. she said maybe in time. i really love her and im commited to controlling my anger..what should i do? |
| Well you can't deny the fact that you already hurt her emotionally. What you have done to her greatly marked on her head. I think the reason why she's too affected is because she had loved you so much, and she failed to save your relationship. Nevertheless, don't lose hope. If you really love her fight for it. Love conquers all. This is not the time for you to give up. She will listen to you. |
| "Prove To Her That You Had Changed "
You are one good example of a stupid guy. Being so rude with your girl means you do not love her anymore. What would you expect, she will forgive you just like that? After what you had done with her and to the relationship in general? come on man, get back into your senses. She will never come back to you again. Unless you prove yourself worthy to her again. |
| Hi there! It is really bad to bring back something that you lost especially if it is someone you love. Well, I really respect what ever things you had argued on. I am really not that into giving suggestion to you. I think you have to talk to your girl friend for that matter. Thanks you so much to all of you guys and have a great day to all! |
| It would be a difficult challenge for you. What just had happen is not easy for your gf. She loves you but you had hurt her emotionally. Give her and yourself some space to think about everything. You need to change for yourself first. Discipline yourself and control your anger. Prove to your gf that you've already changed. Don't pressure her instead show her your true feelings and intention calmly. Make her realize that you've changed and promise yourself to change for the better. If you both love each other, then your hearts would make a way to be together. |
| "Words are powerful"
The pen is mightier than the sword. Words can bring conflict and misery, whether one means it or not. In your case, you have claimed that you have repeatedly wronged your girlfriend and now you are paying the price. Don't give us this explanation that you have changed and sought out help, don't try to say it. Just prove it. Not to us but to your girlfriend. I believe people change but that doesn't mean that you can easily erase past mistakes. You have to earn that loss trust, if you still want her in your life. |
| "Prove Your Worth "
You surely got yourself in such huge trouble my friend. You cannot expect your girlfriend welcoming you back that easy. You have to win her back, how? Start by admitting your faults and try to move from there. Nobody is perfect, you can always blame yourself for all of your mistakes but try to move on and be a much better person. Things would be fine somehow if you would prove yourself to her. |
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